Continuous Membership Reconciliation for streams

[SimonUnge]

Proposed Changes

This PR implements automatic membership reconciliation for RabbitMQ streams, a mirror of the existing quorum queue membership reconciliation feature, as discussed in this thread created by @tschuettig

In its current form, it behaves verbatim like the feature for Quorum Queues.

In the discussion, @kjnilsson brought up that "member changes for streams isn't as safe to do as for e.g. quorum queues which means that we're probably not quite ready for any such automation." but I wanted us to have a starting point to work from. It is an opt in feature and uses the same steps you'd manually do using the CLI stream commands. It has the same conditions for growing (and shrinking) as quorum queues - perhaps this in an area where we could add more checks, e.g that all replicas are healthy etc?

If this is the route to go, we could create shared code for QQ and Stream auto reconciliation, but I wanted to keep it separate in this PR to be able to clearly discuss the feature.

Core Implementation

rabbit_stream_periodic_membership_reconciliation.erl - Main gen_server that performs periodic membership reconciliation for streams
rabbit_stream_event_subscriber.erl - Event subscriber that triggers reconciliation on cluster events (node up/down, policy changes)

Configuration

Added stream-specific configuration schema entries in rabbit.schema:

stream.continuous_membership_reconciliation.enabled                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                
stream.continuous_membership_reconciliation.auto_remove                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            
stream.continuous_membership_reconciliation.interval                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
stream.continuous_membership_reconciliation.trigger_interval                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       
stream.continuous_membership_reconciliation.target_group_size    

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