compat: ignore dead and restarting status filters

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Summary

docker allows dead and restarting as values for the status filter on the compat /containers/json endpoint, but podman currently returns HTTP 500 when either of them is used. this changes the compat api to ignore those values and return an empty list if no other status filters are left, which matches docker's behavior.

the libpod api still rejects these values since they are docker specific states, as discussed in #28926. the libpod api docs are also updated to list only the states podman supports.

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Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

Fixed the Docker-compatible `/containers/json` API to accept the `dead` and `restarting` status filters instead of returning an internal server error. (#28904)

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