Fix event dispatcher types

[RodrigoHamuy]

Why

As part of fixing #387, we did #388.

But it resulted in useThree().set({controls: ...}) not working with three-stdlib as their controls don't match the types.

This loosens the types a bit more so useThree().set({controls}) can work again with three-stdlib controls.

What

This PR loosen up the three-stdlib copy of EventDispatcher to fix that.

But it requires some updates to drei types to work there.

Checklist

• Ready to be merged

DREI

This will require also updating DREI here:

- export type OrbitControlsChangeEvent = Event & {
-   target: EventTarget & { object: Camera }
- }
+ type ExtractCallback<T, E extends string> = T extends { addEventListener(event: E, callback: infer C): void } ? C : never;
+ export type OrbitControlsChangeEvent = Parameters<ExtractCallback<OrbitControlsImpl, 'change'>>[0]

Alternative solution

We revert #388 and merge three-types/three-ts-types#1398 instead.

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[RodrigoHamuy]

This could work, but not a fan!!