feat: Add support for specifying NotificationOptions

[daamitt]

Add support for specifying NotificationOptions in FastMCP and lowlevel Server creation

Motivation and Context

Currently there is no straightforward way to specify FastMCP server notification capabilities. Some clients do not respect notifications if server does not disclose support in the initliazation phase. eg: "notifications/resources/list_changed"

How Has This Been Tested?

uv run pytest:
Results (18.39s):
653 passed
2 skipped
1 xfailed

Breaking Changes

No

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [ *] New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)
• Documentation update

Checklist

• [x ] I have read the MCP Documentation
• [ x] My code follows the repository's style guidelines
• [ x] New and existing tests pass locally
• [ x] I have added appropriate error handling
• [ x] I have added or updated documentation as needed

Additional context

Have updated notification snippet and snippet readme

uv run server notifications streamable-http  

[daamitt]

#1492 is adding the same feature and showing the need for this. @maxisbey