fix: waitUntil to validated

[KyleAure]

Fixes #106

I agree this should be validated, recent Jenkins builds waited a long time for the published state:

• Jakarta Concurrency
  • Build: https://ci.eclipse.org/cu/view/Release%20Builds/job/concurrency_api-build-publish/2/
  • Time: 00:09:02
• Jakarta Data:
  • Build: https://ci.eclipse.org/data/view/Release%20Builds/job/jakarta-data-build-and-publish/3/
  • Time: 00:22:00

In both of the builds I passed in the property -DwaitUntil=validated but the system property was ignored and still waited for the published state.

[INFO] Waiting until Deployment 91bfcf6b-0a2f-4c42-a547-2475a7c2ad77 is published
[INFO] Deployment 91bfcf6b-0a2f-4c42-a547-2475a7c2ad77 was successfully published