chore(query): Compatible with the MySQL BI Ecosystem

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Summary

This pr modification was made to ensure compatibility with some mysql ecosystem BI software and mysql jdbc/odbc

Add missing information_schema tables (CHARACTER_SETS, REFERENTIAL_CONSTRAINTS)
and enhance MySQL federated query handling to support BI tools and JDBC/ODBC
drivers that rely on standard MySQL metadata queries.

Key changes:

• Bump opensrv-mysql to 0.9.0 for protocol improvements
• Add PowerBI compatibility
  • (SQL_AUTO_IS_NULL, SHOW KEYS FROM, select from db.empty_string.table queries)
  • SHOW COLUMNS FROM TABLE
• Improve query result writer for MySQL-compliant metadata
• Update SQL binder to handle information_schema queries correctly

Tests

• Unit Test
• Logic Test
• Benchmark Test
• No Test - Explain why

Type of change

• Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Refactoring
• Performance Improvement
• Other (please describe):

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