Kinky Code

Abstract

An ascii encodable text only list of sexual/kinky preferences for the purpose of communicating said preferences, vetoes and experiences.

Version

Kinky Code is currently in a preliminary version without a release number.

Roadmap

• The first version will be 0.1 with a preliminary description (see below)
• Subsequent versions will incorporate grammars to generate machine readable text
• Version 1.0 will feature a compiler/decompiler to parse/generate kinky code

Variants

• Can be decoded as a qr code
• Can be compared with one another ("find your compatibilities")
  • by entering two text strings
  • by scanning a qr code in an app

Sections

• Sexuality: e.g. hetero/homo/bi/demi/a/grey/...
• Sexual identity: cis, trans, nb,
• romantic behaviour: hetereo/homo/bi/demi/a/grey/...
• partnership: single/partnered/partnered/polyamory/dating solo/together
• Dating: open to date/not looking/dating solo/partnered/both
• Sexual preferences and kinks in the form of
  • acronym([:] )[ACTIVE][/][/PASSIVE]
• Platforms
  • None
  • OF
  • FL
  • ...

Sexual Preferences and Kinks

Examples

• AN (+-)/--- would mean: On Anal Penetration, as an active, I am indifferent and inexperienced, basically not interested. As a passive, I have a hard limit.

Format

• Active / Passive in the form of
  • +-: Indifferent
  • • Like it
  • ++ Like it often
  • +++ Love it
  • • Not my preference
  • -- Don't like it
  • --- Veto
  • ! I want to try
  • ? I don't know
  • • I want to learn more
  • (...) I have no or few experiences

List

• anal penetration (AN or ANP)
• oral penetration
• vaginal penetration
• bondage with ropes
• suspension and shibari
• restriction play with leather
• other restriction play
• breath restriction
• solo masturbation
• assisted masturbation
• scat play
• urine play
• fisting
• hair pulling
• scratching
  • might be more detailed (e..g. "light"/"hard") in a later version
• biting
• impact play
  • might be more detailed in a later version
• role play
  • there might be more detailed variants in later versions, e.g. ddlg ...
• consensual non-consent
• ds
• ...

Mindset & Practices

There are some mindsets that should be included for a kind of litmus test

• SSC
• RACK
• No Alcohol when playing
• Safer sex only
• Safer sex, apart from primary partner regularly STI tested and aware
• ...

License

Kinky Code © 2023 is licensed under CC BY-SA 4.0.