Add direct_callbacks_enabled to QueueDescriptor

[eflumerf]

Description

See DUNE-DAQ/iomanager#125 for details

Type of change

• New feature or enhancement (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

Testing checklist

• Unit tests pass (e.g. dbt-build --unittest)
• Minimal system quicktest passes (pytest -s minimal_system_quick_test.py)
• Full set of integration tests pass (daqsystemtest_integtest_bundle.sh)

Further checks

• Code is commented where needed, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• Code style is correct (dbt-build --lint, and/or see https://dune-daq-sw.readthedocs.io/en/latest/packages/styleguide/)
• If applicable, new tests have been added or an issue has been opened to tackle that in the future.
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